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so what youre saying is that you support cis people? after all theyve done to oppress you as a "queer" individual?



Yes. I do support cis people. Just in the same way that I would support anyone else. If you are born cis, you cannot help that fact. You aren’t born into hatred. Being cis isn’t wrong. At all.

Have I been oppressed by cishet individuals? Absolutely. I’ve had the shit beat out of me all through high school because of my sexuality. I’ve been beaten, abused, held down, denied employment, and raped for who I am. By cisgendered, heterosexual people. But that doesn’t change the fact that my father is cis. My mother is, too. My friends are. My classmates. My roommate. My girlfriend, for fuck’s sake, is cis.

Just because I have been wronged by some, does not give me the right to hate all. I hate some. Not, by any means, all.

I hate those that have wronged me as individuals. As specific people, who have done specific wrong to me. My rapist was cisgendered. But, so is my eight-year-old niece. 

In short, Anon, yes. I absolutely support cis persons. Why? Because being born with uncontrollable traits is not grounds for hatred, under any circumstances. 

Two of the three boys that beat the shit out of me in high school, consistently, were black. Does that give me the right to hate all black men? Absolutely not. Do you see where I’m going with this, Anon?

No matter the circumstances, hating an entire group of people based on immutable traits is wrong. When you do harbor these prejudices, you are no better than those you claim to be fighting.

Did i just read something rational on Tumblr. Doesn’t this violate some law of nature? 


i found a leather jacket made for build-a-bears in my closet so naturally i had to put it on my cat

"The takeaway message here is that while sex can be and is enjoyable for many people, it’s not necessary in an absolute sense. While most people will engage in sex at some point in their lives, the fact that sexual experiences are common practice does not – and will never – mean that sex is ever required, or that any person should feel ashamed for making the choice not to engage in it."

"There is no organization, board or coalition that regulates the safety of sexual aids in the United States, Japan, Canada and the European Union. None, zero, zilch. Why does that matter? Because, with no regulations, they CAN and DO, make it out of whatever material they want. Toxic? Who cares. Hazardous? Whatever. Cancer-Causing materials? What the consumer doesn’t know will make us more money! Keeping them made cheap? Now we’re talking sex toy production style. Regulating sex toys production would be admitting that people use them, and our government doesn’t want to do that-for goodness sakes, sex toys are illegal in 6 states! How could the government evaluate the safety of something that is illegal? Doing so would be admitting that people used them, and as a result, that the government condoned such behavior."

It’s National Masturbation Month! To celebrate, we’ll be highlighting resources on the topic every Sunday in May. Today we’re featuring our Introduction to Sex Toys page. Check it out here! (via thecsph)

I’m taking a poll: REBLOG if you think Sex Ed should be changed to include extensive topics on orientation and gender. LIKE if you think it should remain as is.


Denice Frohman - “Borders” (WoWPS 2014)

"She’s learned enough English to translate for her parents, but says that her thick accent is still a problem she tries to fix by leaving in her locker."

Our first ever viral poet! Performing at the 2014 Women of the World Poetry Slam, where she took 3rd overall.


-Abandoned underground station in Paris converted into a pool


-Abandoned underground station in Paris converted into a pool

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Sorry it’s a bit long.

I’ve had a rough time this week and was worrying that I was going to get bad again. But Kaylie reminded me of all the things that are different in my life now.  I process things a lot better through writing/art, so yesterday I decided to do a thing to help myself remember.

why diagnosis is important.

i wanna get drunk and kiss a lot and not think for a while

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Wouldn’t mind moving in here…


Wouldn’t mind moving in here…

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